San Antonio Mother Advocates for Teen Dating Violence Awareness to Honor Her Late 19-Year-Old Daughter
In a heartbreaking story of loss and resilience, Rena Castro, a mother from San Antonio, is advocating for teen dating violence awareness in honor of her late daughter, Erin Rios Castro. Erin was described as an outgoing and determined young woman who had a bright future ahead of her. However, her life was tragically cut short due to an abusive relationship.
Rena Castro recalls her daughter as a firecracker, someone who was confident and outspoken. She never imagined that someone like Erin could become a victim of abuse. This realization has driven Rena to educate teens about healthy relationships and break the cycle of abuse through the Erin Rios Castro Foundation.
Erin’s relationship with Joshua Garcia, a fellow student, began in high school. Rena noticed her daughter slowly pulling away from her family and friends, transforming into someone she didn’t recognize. Garcia would criticize Erin’s appearance and manipulate her emotions, leading her to believe the hurtful words he said. Rena intervened, pressing charges and even speaking to Garcia himself in an attempt to make him understand the consequences of his actions.
Despite these efforts, tragedy struck on Erin’s 19th birthday. Garcia ran over Erin with a vehicle, leaving her lifeless body on the side of the road. This devastating incident occurred while Garcia was on probation for a previous assault on Erin. In 2021, Garcia was sentenced to 35 years in prison for her murder.
Erin’s story is not unique. One in three U.S. teens will experience some form of physical, sexual, or emotional abuse in a relationship before reaching adulthood. It is crucial to recognize the signs of dating violence and take action to prevent further harm.
The Erin Rios Castro Foundation aims to support teens who have experienced dating violence by offering scholarships that focus on the individual’s potential rather than their grades or extracurricular activities. Rena wants young victims to know that they are intelligent and capable individuals who can still achieve their dreams despite facing adversity.
In the wake of Erin’s death, Rena connected with Alison Steele, the mother of another teen victim of dating violence. Cayley Mandadi, a cheerleader at Trinity University, was killed by her partner in a similar circumstance. Steele’s determination led to the creation of CLEAR (Coordinated Law Enforcement Adult Rescue), an emergency broadcast alert system for missing adults between the ages of 18 and 64. This initiative aims to provide rapid response and assistance in locating potential suspects.
Governor Greg Abbott signed the CLEAR Alert into law in 2019, honoring victims like Cayley Mandadi, D’Lisa Kelley, Erin Castro, Ashanti Billie, and other unnamed victims whose lives might have been saved if the alert system existed sooner.
Rena emphasizes the importance of spreading awareness about the CLEAR Alert system, as many people are still unaware of its existence. By raising awareness and educating both parents and teens about the signs of dating violence, Rena hopes to prevent further tragedies and provide support for those who may be suffering silently.
If you suspect your teen is experiencing abuse, it is essential to start the conversation. The Texas Advocacy Project provides a guide for parents or guardians on how to approach the topic and develop a safety plan. Rena advises parents to be vigilant and not dismiss any unexplained bruises or changes in behavior. It is crucial to take small answers seriously and create a safe space for open communication.
Erin’s story serves as a powerful reminder that dating violence can happen to anyone. Through her foundation and advocacy work, Rena Castro is determined to break the cycle of abuse and ensure that no family has to endure the pain she has experienced. By sharing Erin’s story and promoting awareness, we can work towards a future where teen dating violence is eradicated.
If you or someone you know is experiencing dating violence, the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline is available 24/7 at 1-866-331-9474, or you can reach out through live chat and text services.
Let us come together to honor Erin’s memory and create a world where no young person has to suffer in silence.
